Erste Hilfe – Enttäuschung (Keine Täuschung mehr)
Recht oft höre ich von Kunden, dass diese an ältere Aussagen der X Partnerin festhalten. Aber meine X sagte: Wir stehen jeden Konflikt durch…Ich sei der richtige Mann in ihrem Leben…______ Platz für die letzten lieben Worte ihrer X.
Dies gehört der Vergangenheit an. Wenn die Kommentare vor der Trennung erfolgten…
Ein guter Freund schrieb mir einige passende Zeilen
A young man came to complain that his girlfriend had let him down, that she had played false. What are you complaining about? Did you expect any better? Expect the worst, you’re dealing with selfish people. You’re the idiot–you glorified her, didn’t you? You thought she was a princess, you thought people were nice. They’re not! They’re not nice. They’re as bad as you are–bad, understand? They’re asleep like you. And what do you think they are going to seek? Their own self-interest, exactly like you. No difference. Can you imagine how liberating it is that you’ll never be disillusioned again, never be disappointed again? You’ll never feel let down again. Never feel rejected. Want to wake up? You want happiness? You want freedom? Here it is: Drop your false ideas. See through people. If you see through yourself, you will see through everyone. Then you will love them. Otherwise you spend the whole time grappling with your wrong notions of them, with your illusions that are constantly crashing against reality.